art-of-domination:
So I get these every so often. And it doesn’t offend me nor do I feel insulted or upset. I want to take the time to answer your question so you can hopefully understand and learn.
It bothers me that you would put yourself in this situation. Just because I write words that you like and say things that are occasionally funny, doesn’t give you any insight as to who I am or whether I’d be what you want. You don’t know me. You don’t know anything about me. I could be 75 years old. I could be morbidly obese. I could be unemployed living in my parents’ basement. All of these things are possible.
But worse, I could be a criminal. I could be moonlighting here as a woman. I could be dangerous or deviant and put you in harm’s way. You don’t know any of this.
And I don’t know anything about you. What are you like? What do you want? What’s your history and your past and what are you looking for? All I know is your alleged age (reminder: please be at least 18 to read this blog) and some bland measurements. I need to know a lot more about someone to give them my time. And you should require the same. More so even.
Don’t go around the Internet sending careless messages like this. You know why? Because the wrong person is going to take you up on it. And I don’t want that to happen to you. There are many great people to meet. Take the time and do the work to find one. Learn from your experiences about what you like and don’t like. Talk to people, learn about them. Understand them and more importantly, make sure they understand you.
You matter. You are important and special and you need to make decisions that reflect that. Don’t be careless with your body or your mind. Find someone worthy of you. Because you is pretty fucking awesome. Stop sending anon messages asking if someone would meet you. That’s not how you’re going to find someone who you like and who cares for you. All you’re going to find on that path is the potential for trouble. Do better. You’re better than that.
Q U A L I T Y answer. Know your worth. Please.