Ive always had a curiosity towards topping. I always wondered what it was like;its one of those curiosities that keeps resurfacing.So I know its not a phase.I never really felt like a sub,more like a switch.How can I begin to explore Topping in the somewhat territorial community of Dommes? A friend of mine asked his friends that were Dommes,they were super patronizing and thought it was ‘cute’.I know there is a lot of legalities,psychology,and safety involved.I just want to be mentored properly

fantasies-of-a-dominant:

I really don’t know what to suggest. I don’t have any female Dom friends, so I was unaware that you would face such patronising behaviour. I would like to think, that the attitude shown by this particular group of people is not indicative of the sort of behaviour you would expect from female Doms in general. As to being mentored, I would suggest reading as much as you can about being a Dom in the bedroom, safety in play etc. Perhaps reach out to female Doms for advice on here. Followers – if you are aware of any good female Dom blogs, or indeed have any good advice for anon, please comment on this post. 🖤

Send asks…

Thanks for the tag @crushers-anonymous! I’m happy to answer anon’s questions to the best of my ability and/or direct you to other domme friends of mine!

Current mood

A cute pet on his knees, needy and begging to play, dripping from being teased for hours and hours. Spreading my legs ever so slightly, giving him a glimpse of what that precious begging does to me. A crook of a finger, beckoning him closer.

Do I let him taste his prize? Or shall we play some more?

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littlegfdboy:

Clingy Doms

Sure clingy subs are adorable and nice and all but consider this:

-Doms that dont wanna let you go and hug you tightly

-Doms that are addicted to your scent and constantly bury their noses on you

-Doms that whine and pull you closer when you have to wake up early

-Doms that spam you with text till they have your full attention

-Doms that always have their eyes on you and admiring you

Clingy doms in general ❤

Me.

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we-them-good-boys:

Kate @teasefordays, Donnie @gentleg1nger, and Div (the source of this post) are back at it with the third installment of the Teaseland Podcast! Join them in a magical discussion of the new Sabrina Netflix Original series, the difference between magical men and magical women, and a last-minute Venom review!

Make sure to check their blogs if you’re not following them already, and leave suggestions for discussions in our inboxes!

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Hey y’all! Check out the new ep!