Tag: asks

I see you used to be a switch. I talked with some fdoms who started as switches or subs that told me one of the reasons they only came to identify as doms later was they felt some cultural pressure on women to ID as submissive, that only became easier to shake off as they got older and more experienced in kink. Is that an experience you relate to or do you feel it was more of a simple change in preferences? I’m interested to know about your path if you’re willing to share. Have a wonderful day!

The funny thing is, I’ve always known I was a dominant person. It’s just who I am, personality wise. But when I first delved into D/S (about 3 years ago now) I identified as a switch simply because all I was interested at the time was learning as much as I could. I did submit to a handful of dom(me)s but it was never where I was happiest.

While I didn’t really enjoy submitting, I don’t regret it. I have learned a lot about being a domme from when I submitted – I learned good practices and learned to recognize bad practices. I grew a lot by learning from more experienced dom(me)s and I am thankful to many of them for the learning experience.

1) something that Tumblr has made you interested in trying 2) something that you would like to teach your boy 3) If you could either change one event of your choosing from your past or be able to look at your possible future which would you chose and why?

1) Tumblr has made me want to try so much!!! I basically learned about kink and d/s through exploring Tumblr. Pretty much everything you see in my reblogs is a fair answer to this question.

2) Honestly, he’s really the one teaching me. But if I had to pick——probably cumming without touching his dick. 😉

3) As much as I’d love to see the future, that way lies madness. I guess if I could change one thing from my past I never would have wasted so much time applying to and going to med school. I ended up withdrawing after 16 months and I have a HUGE debt and no degree to show for it. :/