Are you planning on altering your content to be compliant with the new terms or is there a plan to move to another platform?

I’m not really too sure at the moment! I know a lot of my mutuals are considering PillowFort and that definitely looks like an option. I’m really bummed about this tbh. I met my SO here, as well as so many lovely mutuals. Everyone in my discord has come from here.

So I’ll keep y’all in the loop, I’ll let y’all know where I go next. I won’t be shutting down this blog for some time; until I know exactly what’s going to stay and what isn’t.

Let me know friends, if y’all want in on the discord! I want to keep all you sweethearts!

Hey y’all!!

A SFW version of this blog/all things Kate can be found over at @cuddlesfordayss! I don’t know what’s going to happen to this one since it’s marked explicit and I can’t change that, but I’ll still be around.

Ive always had a curiosity towards topping. I always wondered what it was like;its one of those curiosities that keeps resurfacing.So I know its not a phase.I never really felt like a sub,more like a switch.How can I begin to explore Topping in the somewhat territorial community of Dommes? A friend of mine asked his friends that were Dommes,they were super patronizing and thought it was ‘cute’.I know there is a lot of legalities,psychology,and safety involved.I just want to be mentored properly

fantasies-of-a-dominant:

I really don’t know what to suggest. I don’t have any female Dom friends, so I was unaware that you would face such patronising behaviour. I would like to think, that the attitude shown by this particular group of people is not indicative of the sort of behaviour you would expect from female Doms in general. As to being mentored, I would suggest reading as much as you can about being a Dom in the bedroom, safety in play etc. Perhaps reach out to female Doms for advice on here. Followers – if you are aware of any good female Dom blogs, or indeed have any good advice for anon, please comment on this post. 🖤

Send asks…

Thanks for the tag @crushers-anonymous! I’m happy to answer anon’s questions to the best of my ability and/or direct you to other domme friends of mine!

softheart-dom:

as a person, I try to remain rational about external relationships

as a dom, I want to make it clear that you’re mine. Mine to look at, mine to kiss, mine to fuck. I’m a very possessive person and I want to bite your neck and leave hickies so everyone knows to back the fuck off. I want to put a collar on your pretty little neck so you always have a reminder of who owns you. Give you bruises on your perfect ass so the next day whenever you sit down you remember that I bring you pleasure.

You’re your own person but you’re also mine

Big mood.