teasefordays:

Been getting a lot of new followers…

And I’m curious. What brought to my blog? What made you decide to follow?

Send me an ask if you feel like sharing, anon or not!

Hmmmmm someone indulged me quite a bit in messages and I love them for it. 😍

“For years I was much more on the dom side of the spectrum. My former partner and I were very much poly/open, and we incorporated our respective escapades into our own play; ie when she came home after having sex with another partner or hookup, I would call her an insatiable slut, etc. All good fun.

Then one day she told me that she had thought of actually cheating on me, of getting together with someone I didn’t know about and having a sexual relationship with them behind my back.

She was surprised how hot the idea made her. After some initial discomfort, I was amazed to discover that I too was aroused by the notion of her cheating. So I told her to go ahead if she felt like it. Of course (as I found out later), she already had someone in mind when she brought it up, so she eagerly took me up on the offer.

That point marked a turning point in our relationship. I found that I enjoyed feeling cuckolded and sexually disempowered, especially when she would taunt me with how superior her other lovers were to me. Again, all good fun – well, mostly at least.

As we explored the cuckold kink, we started experimenting with her more explicitly dominating me physically and psychologically. She would order me to masturbate where I might be seen, or edge me until I was about to explode and leave me unsatisfied, or peg me until I was sobbing. Even though neither of us are fans of gender stereotypes, we had fun messing around with feminization.

She and I are no longer together. But even after we split, the door to that dark, subby corner of my mind remained open. And that’s what drew me to your blog.”