slut-solutions:

It sucks that men have been brainwashed into feeling like their dick isn’t enough. I really hate our culture for doing this to people. Both men and women feel this intense pressure to look like what they see in porn, in clothing ads, and in movies. Since guys watch so much porn, they start to think that only big cocks are good because that is all you see in porn. The real reason porn uses big cocks is because they are easier to get good shots with because only part of their dick actually fits inside of these porn stars’ pussies. The rest of their giant dick is still hanging out of the pussy, and this makes for a good video because you can see the cock fucking the pussy more easily. 

I was recently talking to one of the girls I fuck about this issue and she asked me if I liked cocks of all shapes and sizes and I told her the truth. I tend to stick with cocks that are at least 6 inches and above. This is because I have a very deep vagina. Sometimes if I fuck a smaller cock I can’t feel it. However, I do a lot of gangbangs and so I have fucked guys with all different sizes and I have been brought to orgasm by a four-inch cock before. I have also fucked four-inchers that I can’t really feel.

She told me she likes cocks of all shapes and sizes and though she can take a big dick, she also likes the smaller ones because they hit different spots inside of her. We discussed how guys who are confident in their cocks are much more attractive because confidence is attractive. We also discussed how many men are insanely insecure when it comes to their cock size and their abilities in bed.

If you want to know what you can do to be the best, here is my advice. You have the dick that you have. That isn’t going to change. What can change are the following things:

1) How you see yourself. You are in control of your own opinion of you. If you choose to love yourself as is, then it will change how you do all the things you do, including how you have sex. Confidence is sexy and the key to being confident is to see yourself in the best light possible.

2) How you use your cock. This is also connected to confidence. A lot of men think that they have to do all kinds of crazy shit with their dicks like guys do in porn. The truth is, the best moves are the simplest moves! Try connecting with your partner on an emotional level instead of just a sexual one. Kiss her. Show her love and affection. Make sex about more than just a cock going in and out of a pussy. Make sex a way to connect emotionally, not just physically. This will immediately up your game. Your cock should be an extension of this connection. If you are truly connected to your partner you will actually feel a response from her pussy as you fuck her. You’ll be able to feel the spots that make her feel good and if you work those spots with your cock I promise she will love it.

3) How you approach women in sexual relationships. If you treat a woman with respect and kindness outside of the bedroom she will be more likely to let you try all the kinky shit with her in the bedroom. Building trust through kindness and care makes any sex you are having that much more intimate. Intimacy = better sex. Big dicks do not always mean the sex will be better or that it will even be good at all. Intimacy is the best predictor of good sex. So don’t be afraid to be emotionally and physically intimate and you will impress your partners.

5) Your attitude toward your cock size and body. If you are confident in you, your body and your cock size then other people will be as well. To increase your feelings of love toward yourself, try saying positive things to yourself. So when you watch porn and see a big cock you may hear your inner voice say, “Wow, that’s a big cock. Mine is so small. I suck.” That is when you need to challenge this negative thought with a positive one. You might say, “No, that’s not true. My cock is awesome as it is and my girlfriend loves it.”

The more positive things you say to yourself about your cock, the more you will love it. The more you love it, the more she will love it. Do know that even guys with “big” cocks feel like shit about themselves. Feeling bad about you can take place no matter what you look like, how big your dick is or how much people like you. You have to like yourself and this takes work for most people.

6) Don’t put yourself down. The least sexy thing a guy can do is put himself down in front of a girl. When a guy says, “I hate my dick, it sucks,” to me that makes me want to just delete him and move on to the next guy. I don’t want to hear about your insecurities about your dick. If you want me to love your dick, tell me why it’s awesome, not why it sucks. Also, if you want to get laid, don’t put yourself down. Confidence is sexy. Self-deprecation is not.

7) Ignore bitches. If any girl puts you down for having a certain size cock, drop her ass from your life quickly (unless you are into that, in which case, carry on). Any person who has to put someone down for the way they are built is an insecure and unhappy person. You don’t want people like that in your life. They just bring you down and they are pretty shallow.