trystansays:

foxyshadow:

itsallprimal:

kittenslittleplayplace:

instructor144:

I don’t see a problem here at all. It’s what I do, and there’s a reason for it. Here’s the thing: offering one’s submission is not a “one and done” kind of deal. A submissive wakes up every morning and makes the decision, consciously or not, to offer their submission again that day. By waiting for their “good morning” or equivalent text, the Dom is giving the submissive the space to make that decision. We won’t admit this, because we’re all Domly as fuck, but we sit and wait with a certain low key, usually subconscious anticipation to see if we get our “Good morning.” Unspoken, and more often than not subconscious, there is always at least a whisper of the thought: “Is today the day I don’t get my ‘good morning’? Is today the day my submissive decides to move on?” 

Well said but I like to add my point of view.

Dear anon, you decided to submit to your Dom and you decide every morning if he is still worthy. Sending him your “Good morning, Sir” is a sign that you still think he’s the one worth your submission. It is a sign that, maybe, the first thing you’re thinking about after waking up is him, it shows also respect towards him and that you are willing to follow him wherever he may lead you (in between your limits and boundaries).

It is not onto him to send you a good morning first. Instead he waits if he gets his today. Submission is a gift that is given anew every single day. I like to think that my Sir sits and smiles when he gets my good morning text and maybe thinks “She’s mine for another day.”

A fantastic point of view. In BDSM relationship thinking.

~Primal

I’ve never seen the thought articulated before, but this hits my thought process spot on.

…and mine as well.

This is beautiful!