Have you ever heard the theory that the submissive partner is actually the one with all the power? …Because while they hand over their power, they ultimately have the ultimate power of “stop.” I like this, I like that. Do more of this. …I don’t know how to take that theory I mean both parties get to have limits and likes. Your perspective?

instructor144:

It’s not a “theory.” It is the truth of the thing. The submissive holds all the power, because they can stop anything and everything with a word. One word.

100%!

I’m so sick and tired of these fake femdom fuck boys who don’t want to be pegged. It’s like if you don’t want to be pegged than you don’t actually like femdom. It’s weak and pathetic and we don’t need their bullshit in our lifestyle.

rae-being-naughty:

*makes screeching tire noises*

Nope. Not up on my page you don’t. Femdom submissives are not fucking required to like pegging. No one is required to like anything. Folks are allowed to have hard limits. If that is a deal breaker for you that a sub doesn’t like pegging there is another Dom/me out there who won’t mind. Some Dom/mes don’t like pegging either. Remember in kink: your kink is not my kink and that’s okay. It’s about negotiating between people their limits and preferences.

So, don’t denigrate those who don’t like anal/pegging/ass play, and conversely subs out there who don’t like pegging quit reblogging pegging stuff and bitching about folks who like it. Goddamn.

SO MUCH THIS.

ruinsflowersandchains:

You know what would be cute? Your legs tied apart so you can’t close them while I experiment on you with my teeth and tongue and hands and skin and maybe a load of toys as well.

Also, I’m not going to tie your hands up, but they better stay on your pillow.

You don’t want me to stop, do you?